Tuesday, August 28, 2012

Poverty and Wealth

Poverty
  What is it?

There is a family that was recently relocated from a shack on stilts
  to a new apartment with a bathroom and a kitchen.

But, they don't know how to use the toilet...
  and they don't have the income to pay for the new bills,
  water, electricity, mortgage...

And, they haven't figured out how to use the toilet...

Poverty

There is a woman that loads her bicycle with vegetables
  every day
  and rides the 3 kilometers to the city center
  where she lays her produce neatly on the ground
  and waits for passersby to purchase it.

At dusk, she once again boards her bicycle
  and rides the 3 kilometers home
  to tend the fields, feed the children,
  sweep the dirt floors,
  and prepare for tomorrow's journey.

Poverty

There is a woman who lost everything the day
  she learned of her breast cancer.
  Nightmares later, she found herself in a
  resettlement neighborhood,
  living as one of the 'poorest of the poor'.

Poverty

But that family who didn't know how to use a toilet
  shared their one room apartment with
  a homeless family.

And the woman on the bicycle shared her bicycle
  on weekends with a neighbor who had no other way
  to get to the city.

Wealth

And the woman who lost everything to cancer
  organized the 'poorest of the poor' to create a fund
  for a single mother who was starving.

She taught the neighborhood children to
  care for the cleanliness of the streets.

She inspired the neighbors to save what little cash they have
  and to invest in community development projects
  or to share with those less fortunate than themselves.

The little girl that learned to keep the streets clean
  taught a grown woman about environmental protection.

And the 'poorest of the poor' children saved their pennies
  to share with a child who had nothing...

Wealth

My God, we in the states have gotten so lost!

While children starve,
  we, daily, throw away food.

While people struggle to get their produce to town,
  we buy a second and a third car.

While people live on the streets or in shacks on stilts,
  we covet more square footage and a view.

Poverty

While children and elderly are swept away
  in flooding,
  we ignore how our actions create climate change.

Poverty

While families die in wars to extract yet more oil
  from an oil-depleted earth,
  we drive two blocks to the store.

This, my friends, is our poverty.

It is poverty of spirit.
  It creates wreckage in peoples' lives -
  people who we've never even seen!
  It kills and starves and maims and destroys.
  We only need to look and we will see.

We hold so much of the answer, you know.
  We, who by fortune of birth, find ourselves living
  in the richest country in the world.

Because of our relative wealth,
  we can make important changes to breath life
  into this planet and show compassion for all.

Creating wealth

The little girl from the 'poorest of the poor'
  could find a way
  to help her neighbor.

Creating Wealth

The woman who lost everything to breast cancer
  keeps finding ways to help.

Creating Wealth

We can join this movement of people who reach beyond themselves
  into the community of humankind.

We can contribute.
  We must contribute.
  And in breathing hope into life for others,
  we regain our own wealth of spirit
  and escape, ourselves, from poverty.

Create Wealth

Friday, August 17, 2012

Than Lan: A New Friend for you, Alakai!

Than Lan - My Vietnamese Friend and Roommate

This is Than Lan (pronounced Tawn Lawn).
She moved in with me several months back.
Every evening, she makes the same trek across my walls and ceiling.
One night, she posed for me...hanging upside down on the ceiling,
so that I could take her picture and send it to my lovely
3 year-old grandson, Alakai.

Alakai, 
Than Lan lives on top of my dresser.
She goes into my bathroom to drink water,
and she eats all the bugs in my room.
Thanks to her, I have no bugs in my room!
So, now she goes outside to catch her food.

She has funny, fat fingers that she uses to hold on to the ceiling,
so she can hang upside down.

In this picture, she is looking at you and saying,
'Hi Alakai!  I'm your new friend!'

I love you dearly, my sweet grandson!
Nanna

Wednesday, August 8, 2012

Gandalf's Wisdom for the Frodo in Us All

You can find wisdom anywhere...
  if you are watching for it.

Last night, I was watching the Lord of the Rings.
  In the moment that Frodo realizes he must travel
  a very dangerous road, he tells Gandalf that
  he wished he had never seen the ring,
  and that he was back in the safety of his home.

Gandalf looked at him with compassion and said,
  'Whether to live in these times
   is not for us to decide.
   All we have to decide is
   what we will do with the time
   that is given us.'

I was profoundly affected by these words,
  for I often feel so powerless and small
  in the face of the avenging god, Climate Change.

I find myself wishing that it was 1970 again,
  and that I was safe at home, climbing trees
  and building forts.

Or, I try to ignore what is happening outside my door
  and go about life 'as usual'.

As if I can ignore
  the shifting of the earth beneath my feet;

As if I can pretend
  the earth
  is not burning up our food,
  is not flooding our homes,
  is not killing people with its murderous heat...

I, like Frodo,
  want desperately for things to
  NOT
  be as they are.

But, Gandalf speaks to us all
  when he says
  it was not for us to decide to be here
  at this moment in time,
  but that it is for us to decide
  just what we will do with the time
  we have been given.

And, I wonder...
  Is it possible that we are here
  at this turning point in the history of humanity
  precisely
  because we are the ones that
  CAN
  do something about the crisis?

Is it possible that we are uniquely equipped
  to make this harsh and frightening journey
  even though we feel small and insignificant?

Is it possible that regular people like you and I
  hold, in our hearts, the answers
  to this terrible crisis?

Is it possible that, like Frodo,
  we just have to set foot upon this path
  and trust that, somehow, someway,
  we can find our way through it?

Sunday, August 5, 2012

'Collateral Damage' and the Hidden Meaning of Language

Being a writer, I take great interest in words,
  what they mean and how they are used.
  Words, quite literally, create the reality that we see.

Words are tricky though.
  They can be used in different ways
  and with different purposes.

They can be used to create any kind of reality.
  But always, they are used for a purpose.
  And that purpose is not always innocent or honest.

Sometimes, words are used to mislead, or to misconstrue
  the way we define reality.

I take issue when the
  intentional mis-construction of words hurts people.

There are a couple of terms that I would like to explore here.

The first is a term created by the military.
  It is 'collateral damage'.
  The term sounds benign and harmless.
  It triggers no emotional response in the listener.
  It really just sounds like something got broken.
  Oh well.  Things get broken all the time.
  Whatever it was can be fixed or replaced.

There is another term, 'casualties of war'.
  More of us are familiar with this term,
  at least those of us old enough to remember the Vietnam War
  (which incidentally is called the 'American War' here in Viet Nam).

We know 'casualty of war' means someone died.
  We don't know if it was the enemy or a civilian
  or one of 'our own'.
  But, we know someone died.
  Still, it doesn't create much of a stir in our hearts.

How about this term, 'Your brother was killed.'
  Or this one, 'An innocent child was murdered.'
  How does your heart respond to these words?

When you hear the words, 'collateral damage' next,
  know that what's really being said is,
  'Someone's brother, or father, or sister or daughter was killed'.

And, does it really matter if it was the enemy that killed her
  or 'friendly fire' (someone on our side) who killed her???
  She's dead.
  And that is final.

When words are used by those in authority positions to
  change how we perceive reality,
  it is called 'propaganda',
  which is defined in the dictionary as
  'deceptive or distorted information that is systematically spread'.

And why would they do that?
  Because those creating the distortion want to change
  how we 'see', and ultimately respond to,
  events that are happening in our lives.

After all, you might respond differently if you heard
  'Your son was murdered.'
  than if you heard there was 'collateral damage'.

And, I haven't even gotten to the terms that are
  particularly bothersome to me.
  I'll cover those in a later post.

Meanwhile, listen carefully to the news reports.
  Demystify strange terms like 'collateral damage'.
  Discern for yourself what is really being said.
  And allow your heart to respond to the real information.

Then, we shall hear the people speak.